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		<title>Eliminate Facebook Profile Application Spam</title>
		<link>http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/index.php/2010/02/17/eliminate-facebook-profile-application-spam/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 15:23:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Benjamin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even if you disable notifications from Facebook applications, your profile may still get littered with posts from applications.  You can remove each post manually by clicking the remove link that appears when you mouse over the offending post.

This will remove only that post.  It won&#8217;t remove all posts by the application or prevent [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even if you disable notifications from Facebook applications, your profile may still get littered with posts from applications.  You can remove each post manually by clicking the remove link that appears when you mouse over the offending post.</p>
<div id="attachment_266" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 516px"><a href="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Facebook-Profile-Application-Remove-Post.png"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Facebook-Profile-Application-Remove-Post.png" alt="Facebook Profile Application Remove Post" title="Facebook-Profile-Application-Remove-Post" width="506" height="124" class="size-full wp-image-266" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Link to remove an individual post</p></div>
<p>
This will remove only that post.  It won&#8217;t remove all posts by the application or prevent future posts by that application.  To block an application from ever posting to your profile, follow these steps.
</p>
<ol>
<li>Click the name of the application.  This will take you to the application&#8217;s page on facebook.<div id="attachment_269" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 512px"><a href="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Facebook-Profile-Go-To-Application.png"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Facebook-Profile-Go-To-Application.png" alt="Facebook Profile Go To Application" title="Facebook-Profile-Go-To-Application" width="502" height="131" class="size-full wp-image-269" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Link to Facebook application's profile</p></div></li>
<li>Click the Block Application link.<div id="attachment_270" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 206px"><a href="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Facebook-Application-Profile-Block-Application.png"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Facebook-Application-Profile-Block-Application.png" alt="Facebook Application Profile Block Application" title="Facebook-Application-Profile-Block-Application" width="196" height="306" class="size-full wp-image-270" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Link to block Facebook application</p></div></li>
<li>Click the Block button in the window that appears.<br />
<div id="attachment_271" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 438px"><a href="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Facebook-Block-Application-Dialog-Window.png"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Facebook-Block-Application-Dialog-Window.png" alt="Facebook Block Application Dialog Window" title="Facebook-Block-Application-Dialog-Window" width="428" height="127" class="size-full wp-image-271" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Click the Block button to block an application</p></div></li>
<p>
Following these steps will prevent an application from posting to your profile and remove all posts by that application that were on your profile.</p>
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		<title>Eliminate Facebook Notification Spam</title>
		<link>http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/index.php/2009/07/26/eliminate-facebook-notification-spam/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 01:24:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Benjamin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve used Facebook for any amount of time, you&#8217;ve certainly gotten more than your fair share of notification spam.  You login to your Facebook account and see that you&#8217;ve got multiple notifications waiting for you.  Your heartbeat races with anticipation of new friend requests, photo comments, or wall posts only to find [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;ve used Facebook for any amount of time, you&#8217;ve certainly gotten more than your fair share of notification spam.  You login to your Facebook account and see that you&#8217;ve got multiple notifications waiting for you.  Your heartbeat races with anticipation of new friend requests, photo comments, or wall posts only to find out that three of your friends have taken a Flixster quizz, 2 your friends need your help in Mafia Wars, and one of your friends has gotten a new high score in Bejewled.  It doesn&#8217;t take long to completely lose interest in the notification icon and view it as a nuisance.  Here&#8217;s a simple guide to get back the excitement of a possible new friend request or photo comment as the only notifications when that little red box pops up.</p>
<h2>Little Red Box</h2>
<p>Reducing your notifications starts by clicking the box that brings so much joy and frustration.</p>
<ol>
<li>Click the notifications icon.
<p><div id="attachment_259" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 240px"><img class="size-full wp-image-259" title="Facebook Notifications Icon" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/FacebookNotificationsIcon.png" alt="Facebook Notifications Icon" width="230" height="63" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Notifications Icon</p></div></li>
<li>Click <strong>See All</strong>.
<p><div id="attachment_260" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 212px"><img class="size-full wp-image-260" title="Facebook See All Notifications" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/FacebookNotificationsSeeAll.png" alt="Facebook See All Notifications" width="202" height="406" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook See All Notifications</p></div></li>
<li>On the right hand side of the screen, you will see a list of all applications you&#8217;ve authorized to display notifications.  Uncheck any application from which you no longer wish to receive notifications.
<p><div id="attachment_261" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 224px"><img class="size-full wp-image-261" title="Facebook Applications Authorized to send Notifications" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/FacebookAppsAuthForNotifications.png" alt="Facebook Applications Authorized to send Notifications" width="214" height="492" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Applications Authorized to send Notifications</p></div></li>
</ol>
<p>That&#8217;s all there is to it.  You will no longer receive notifications from the application you unchecked.  Now when you login and see the notification icon, you&#8217;ll know it is something actually worth caring about.</p>
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		<title>Prevent Facebook From Using Your Photo In Ads</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 00:42:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Benjamin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;ve probably seen ads similar to the one below on Facebook.
These advertisements are written in such a way to make you think your friends are already using the application or service.  They may be using the application, but they most likely aren&#8217;t.  These advertisements randomly grab a selection of your friends&#8217; photographs to insert into [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;ve probably seen ads similar to the one below on Facebook.</p>
<div id="attachment_233" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 611px"><img class="size-full wp-image-233" title="FacebookFriendAd" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/FacebookFriendAd.png" alt="Facebook Ad With Friend Pictures" width="601" height="50" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Ad With Friend Pictures</p></div>
<p>These advertisements are written in such a way to make you think your friends are already using the application or service.  They may be using the application, but they most likely aren&#8217;t.  These advertisements randomly grab a selection of your friends&#8217; photographs to insert into the advertisement.   I&#8217;m sure these advertisements are more effective than most because of peer pressure.  If you are fooled into thinking that your friend uses the application or service, then you&#8217;re more likely to try it.</p>
<p>When you create your Facebook account, you give Facebook permission to use your photo in these advertisements.  This is sneaky and underhanded in my opinion.  Fortunately, you can take back that permission.</p>
<ol>
<li>Click the <strong>Privacy Settings</strong> option from the Settings menu.
<p><div id="attachment_241" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 427px"><img class="size-full wp-image-241" title="Facebook Privacy Settings Menu" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/FacebookPrivacySettingsMenu.png" alt="Facebook Privacy Settings Menu" width="417" height="100" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Privacy Settings Menu</p></div></li>
<li>Click <strong>News Feed and Wall</strong>.
<p><div id="attachment_234" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 499px"><img class="size-full wp-image-234 " title="Facebook Privacy Landing Page News Feed and Wall Highlighted" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/FacebookPrivacyLandingNewsFeedWall.png" alt="FacebookPrivacyLandingNewsFeedWall" width="489" height="225" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Privacy Landing Page News Feed and Wall Highlighted</p></div></li>
<li>Click <strong>Facebook Ads</strong>.
<p><div id="attachment_236" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 292px"><img class="size-full wp-image-236" title="Facebook Privacy News Feed Wall Menubar Facebook Ads" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/FacebookPrivacyNewsFeedWallMenubarFacebookAds.png" alt="Facebook Privacy News Feed Wall Menubar Facebook Ads" width="282" height="33" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Privacy News Feed Wall Menubar Facebook Ads</p></div></li>
<li>Choose <strong>No one</strong> from the Appearance in Facebook Ads drop down menu.
<p><div id="attachment_237" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 300px"><img class="size-full wp-image-237" title="Appearance In Facebook Ads Setting" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/AppearanceInFacebookAds.png" alt="Appearance In Facebook Ads Setting" width="290" height="56" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Appearance In Facebook Ads Setting</p></div></li>
<li>Click <strong>Save Changes</strong>.</li>
</ol>
<p>Now your photo will still be used in advertisements that you see, but it won&#8217;t be used in advertisements your friends see.  Now Facebook can&#8217;t use your photo to mislead your friends into thinking you are using an application or service that you are not.</p>
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		<title>Filtering the Facebook News Feed</title>
		<link>http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/index.php/2009/06/23/filtering-the-facebook-news-feed/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 11:40:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Benjamin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alright, so you&#8217;re an Internet superstar.  You&#8217;ve managed to friend thousands of people on Facebook, and now your Facebook home page is filled with so many posts from people you don&#8217;t know, that posts from people you actually care about are lost in the scroll.  Fortunately this is pretty easy to fix.
Create a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alright, so you&#8217;re an Internet superstar.  You&#8217;ve managed to friend thousands of people on Facebook, and now your Facebook home page is filled with so many posts from people you don&#8217;t know, that posts from people you actually care about are lost in the scroll.  Fortunately this is pretty easy to fix.</p>
<h2>Create a List</h2>
<p>From your Facebook home page, click the <strong>+Create</strong> link.<br />
<div id="attachment_158" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 154px"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookcreatelist.png" alt="Facebook Create List" title="Facebook Create List" width="144" height="217" class="size-full wp-image-158" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Create List</p></div></p>
<p>You can name this list anything you want.  This list will contain people whose posts you actually want to see.  I named my list, People I Know.</p>
<ol>
<li>Type a name for the list in the box where it has highlighted <strong>Enter a Name</strong>. I named this list <strong>People I Know</strong>. Feel free to make up your own name that makes more sense to you.</li>
<li>Now either click the photo of each person whose posts you want to see, or type their name in the search box. If you accidentally click the wrong person, click their photo again to remove them from the list.</li>
<li>After you’ve added everyone who belongs on the list, click the <strong>Create List button</strong>.</li>
</ol>
<p>Here’s a screen shot for reference. I’ve intentionally blurred out the photos and names of my friends for their own protection.</p>
<div id="attachment_159" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 455px"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookcreatelistdialog.png" alt="Facebook Create List Dialog" title="Facebook Create List Dialog" width="445" height="420" class="size-full wp-image-159" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Create List Dialog</p></div>
<p>Now you can simply click this list from your home screen to filter the news feed down to just the people you care about seeing.  It&#8217;s kind of a pain to click this button every time you log in to Facebook.  This is easily resolved by clicking and dragging the list you just created to the first position.  Now when you log in to Facebook, you will see posts from only the people on your list.  If you want to see everyone&#8217;s posts, you can click the News Feed list.</p>
<div id="attachment_196" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 155px"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/FacebookNewsFeedReordered.png" alt="You can change the list order in Facebook" title="Facebook News Feed Reordered" width="145" height="275" class="size-full wp-image-196" /><p class="wp-caption-text">You can change the list order in Facebook</p></div>
<h2>Drawbacks</h2>
<p>Currently you can&#8217;t add Pages to a list in Facebook.  This means posts from any Page that you&#8217;ve become a fan of won&#8217;t show up unless you click the News Feed list.</p>
<h2>Hiding Applications or Friends</h2>
<p>Most games on Facebook like to advertise themselves, A LOT.  Even though you&#8217;ve now filtered your friends list down to just the people whose posts you want to see, you&#8217;re still getting flooded with notifications from all of the applications that your friends play.  You can hide notifications from individual applications.  </p>
<ol>
<li>Put your mouse cursor over the post you want to hide.</li>
<li>On the far right of the post, you&#8217;ll see a little menu that says <strong>Hide</strong>.</li>
<li>Clicking the menu will give you two options.</li>
<ol>
<li>Choosing <strong>Hide [Person's Name]</strong> will remove all posts from this person from your News Feed regardless of any lists to which they belong.  We&#8217;ve already added them to a list of people whose posts we want to see, so don&#8217;t choose this option.</li>
<li>Choosing <strong>Hide [Application Name]</strong> will remove all posts from that application.  This is the option you should choose.  This will hide those spammy applications from your News Feed, yet still let you see your friends&#8217; status updates and photos they&#8217;ve posted.</li>
</ol>
</ol>
</ol>
<p>Here&#8217;s a sample image.  I&#8217;ve intentionally blurred the names and photos.<br />
<div id="attachment_207" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 550px"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/FacebookHideApplication.png" alt="Facebook Menu to Hide Application Notifications" title="Facebook Hide Application" width="540" height="133" class="size-full wp-image-207" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Menu to Hide Application Notifications</p></div></p>
<h2>Showing Applications or Friends</h2>
<p>If you accidentally hide an application, you can show it again by scrolling to the bottom of your News Feed and clicking the Edit Options link.<br />
<div id="attachment_209" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 554px"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/FacebookEditOptionsLink.png" alt="Facebook News Feed Edit Options Link" title="Facebook News Feed Edit Options Link" width="544" height="46" class="size-full wp-image-209" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook News Feed Edit Options Link</p></div></p>
<p>You&#8217;ll get a dialog box that displays all of the applications you&#8217;ve hidden.  Click the <strong>Add to News Feed</strong> button for each application that you want to add back to your News Feed stream.<br />
<div id="attachment_213" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 542px"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/FacebookHiddenFromNewsFeed.png" alt="Facebook Hidden From News Feed Dialog Window" title="Facebook Hidden From News Feed Dialog Window" width="532" height="456" class="size-full wp-image-213" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Hidden From News Feed Dialog Window</p></div></p>
<p>This window may look slightly different if you&#8217;ve hidden some friends.  If you want to add a friend back into your News Feed, click the <strong>Add to News Feed</strong> button for that friend.  You will need to click the Applications link to get to a list of Applications you&#8217;ve hidden.  Here&#8217;s a screen shot if you&#8217;ve hidden friends and applications.<br />
<div id="attachment_215" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 541px"><img src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/FacebookHiddenFromNewsFeedFriends.png" alt="Facebook Hidden From News Feed Friends And Applications" title="Facebook Hidden From News Feed Friends And Applications" width="531" height="488" class="size-full wp-image-215" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Hidden From News Feed Friends And Applications</p></div></p>
<p>By following these steps, you can eliminate the majority of unwanted posts from your News Feed.</p>
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		<title>Keeping Your Children and Your Identity Safe on Facebook</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 16:11:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Benjamin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday I received an invite on Facebook from two friends to join their cause to &#8220;Remove Violators and Paedophiles From Facebook.&#8221;  I&#8217;m sure this sounds like a great idea to most anyone.  Unfortunately, it&#8217;s more or less unenforceable.
People Lie
Facebook has no real verification system.  The only information they can match up to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday I received an invite on Facebook from two friends to join their cause to &#8220;Remove Violators and Paedophiles From Facebook.&#8221;  I&#8217;m sure this sounds like a great idea to most anyone.  Unfortunately, it&#8217;s more or less unenforceable.</p>
<h2>People Lie</h2>
<p>Facebook has no real verification system.  The only information they can match up to existing databases of criminals is whatever is provided in the sign up form.  You can put whatever information you want into the sign up form.  It doesn&#8217;t have to be your information.  Even if you&#8217;re a dumb criminal and put your real information into the form and get banned from Facebook, you could easily create another account under a fictitious name.</p>
<p>There are some states that require sex offenders to register their email addresses.  Unless those states are constantly monitoring the criminal&#8217;s internet communications, there&#8217;s no way to tell that they signed up for an email address at any of the thousands of free email services.  Even if they did monitor their home Internet connection, the criminal could always go to an Internet Cafe to create an account.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s no good way to stop criminals from registering on Facebook.  How does a parent protect their children from online predators?</p>
<h2>Protecting Yourself and Your Children</h2>
<p>There&#8217;ve been numerous guidelines and television segments dedicated to monitoring your child&#8217;s Internet activity.  I won&#8217;t bother repeating those suggestions.  These segments all leave out a very important part of your child&#8217;s security, the parent&#8217;s Internet activity.</p>
<p>Social networks, such as Facebook, are great for sharing photos.  Parents like to post pictures of their children.  It&#8217;s common for parents to post a picture of their children, instead of a picture of themselves, for their public profile picture.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not against posting pictures of your children for your family and friends to see, but making those pictures publicly available advertises to online predators that you have children in your home.  Not only have you told them that you have children in your home, you&#8217;ve given them a picture of your child.</p>
<p>I know you&#8217;re thinking that there&#8217;s not much they can do with just a picture.  That depends on the photo.  If it&#8217;s a photo of them in their little league costume, the criminal could show up at one of their games and follow you home to find out where you live.  They could then return when you aren&#8217;t home to protect your child.</p>
<h2>Restrict the Information You Provide Online</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s amazing how much information people put online about themselves.  You can click the info tab on someone&#8217;s Facebook profile and find out the city they live in, where they work, their email address, their date of birth, and their phone number.</p>
<p>Facebook does provide a lot of good tools to secure your information.  Here&#8217;s the basics you need to follow, especially, as a parent.</p>
<h3>Make Photos of Your Children Private</h3>
<p>Whenever you post pictures of your children, create a new album.  Set the privacy for this album to <strong>Only Friends</strong>.  Now only your friends can see your photos, instead of everyone on Facebook.</p>
<div id="attachment_155" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 397px"><img class="size-full wp-image-155" title="Facebook Album Privacy Settings" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookcreatealbum.png" alt="Facebook Album Privacy Settings" width="387" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Album Privacy Settings</p></div>
<p>If you didn&#8217;t set the privacy the first time you created the album, you can easily change the settings for all of your albums.  Click the Album Privacy link, which is accessible from the Photos tab on your profile.</p>
<div id="attachment_156" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 422px"><img class="size-full wp-image-156" title="Facebook Album Privacy Link" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookalbumprivacylink.png" alt="Facebook Album Privacy Link" width="412" height="39" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Album Privacy Link</p></div>
<p>Now set the privacy to <strong>Only Friends</strong> for each album with photos of your children and click the <strong>Save Settings</strong> button at the bottom.</p>
<h3>Make Your Contact Information Private</h3>
<p>You&#8217;ve hidden your photos.  Now you need to hide your contact information.  Follow these steps.</p>
<ol>
<li>From the <strong>Settings</strong> drop down menu, select <strong>Privacy Settings</strong>.
<div id="attachment_160" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 974px"><img class="size-full wp-image-160" title="Facebook Privacy Settings Menu" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookprivacymenu.png" alt="Facebook Privacy Settings Menu" width="964" height="100" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Privacy Settings Menu</p></div></li>
<li>Click Profile
<p><div id="attachment_161" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 332px"><img class="size-full wp-image-161" title="Facebook Profile Privacy Link" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookprofileprivacy.png" alt="Facebook Profile Privacy Link" width="322" height="55" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Profile Privacy Link</p></div></li>
<li>Click the <strong>Contact Information</strong> tab.
<p><div id="attachment_162" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 241px"><img class="size-full wp-image-162" title="Facebook Contact Information Privacy Tab" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookcontactprivacy.png" alt="Facebook Contact Information Privacy Tab" width="231" height="46" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Contact Information Privacy Tab</p></div></li>
<li>For all information you want to hide from strangers, which in my opinion is everything on this page, select <strong>Only Friends</strong> from the drop down menu.</li>
<li>Click the <strong>Save Changes</strong> button.</li>
</ol>
</li>
</ol>
<h2>Undermining Your Own Privacy</h2>
<p>Now only your friends can see photos of your children and your contact information.  Do you personally know all of your Facebook friends?  There are a lot of games and other applications on Facebook.  Most of these games are easier to play if you have more friends, however not all of your friends want to play these games.  A common work around is to invite strangers, who also like to play the game, to be your friend.</p>
<p>By inviting these strangers to be your friend, you&#8217;ve just circumvented the security precautions you took to make sure strangers can&#8217;t see photos of your children.  They are your friends, so the setting &#8220;Only Friends&#8221; allows them to see the photos.  What&#8217;s even worse is the amount of information visible on your Info tab.</p>
<p>Now that the stranger sees you have children, they can click over to your info tab and see where you work, the town you live in, your email address, your phone number, your date of birth, and any other information you&#8217;ve chosen to provide.  They could use any of the information on this page to find out where you and your children live, or use it for other nefarious purposes, such as identity theft.  Fortunately, there is a work around.</p>
<p>The most obvious solution is to not provide any of that information, but that defeats the purpose of a social network.  It&#8217;s nice to share that information with people you know.  The way to protect yourself and your children from strangers you&#8217;ve invited to be your friends is to create lists.</p>
<h3>Use Lists</h3>
<p>From your Facebook home page, click the +Create link.</p>
<p><div id="attachment_158" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 154px"><img class="size-full wp-image-158" title="Facebook Create List" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookcreatelist.png" alt="Facebook Create List" width="144" height="217" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Create List</p></div>
<p>As you can see from the above screen shot, I&#8217;ve created two lists.  One for people I actually know, and one for hiding my contact information.  The people on Facebook that I&#8217;ve invited to be friends just so I could use specific applications, go on the Hide Contact Info list.  People I know in real life go on the People I Know List.  This allows me to restrict personal information from those &#8220;Facebook friends&#8221; I added just to play some games.  I&#8217;ll outline the steps below.</p>
<h4>Create A List for People You Trust</h4>
<ol>
<li>Click the +Create link from your Home screen.</li>
<li>Type a name for the list in the box where it has highlighted <strong>Enter a Name</strong>.  I named this list <strong>People I Know</strong>.  Feel free to make up your own name that makes more sense to you.  This will be the list for people you trust with your contact information and photos.</li>
<li>Now either click the photo of each person you trust, or type their name in the search box.  If you accidentally click the wrong person, click their photo again to remove them from the list.</li>
<li>After you&#8217;ve added everyone who belongs on the list, click the <strong>Create List</strong> button.</li>
</ol>
<p>Here&#8217;s a screen shot for reference.  I&#8217;ve intentionally blurred out the photos and names of my friends for their own protection.</p>
<div id="attachment_159" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 455px"><img class="size-full wp-image-159" title="Facebook Create List Dialog" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookcreatelistdialog.png" alt="Facebook Create List Dialog" width="445" height="420" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Create List Dialog</p></div>
<h4>Create a List for People You Don&#8217;t Trust</h4>
<p>Repeat the same steps outlined for <strong>Create A List for People You Trust</strong>, except give this list a different name.  I named this list <strong>Hide Contact Info</strong>.</p>
<h4>Hide Your Contact Info</h4>
<ol>
<li>From the <strong>Settings</strong> drop down menu, select <strong>Privacy Settings</strong>.
<p><div id="attachment_160" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 974px"><img class="size-full wp-image-160" title="Facebook Privacy Settings Menu" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookprivacymenu.png" alt="Facebook Privacy Settings Menu" width="964" height="100" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Privacy Settings Menu</p></div></li>
<li>Click Profile
<p><div id="attachment_161" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 332px"><img class="size-full wp-image-161" title="Facebook Profile Privacy Link" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookprofileprivacy.png" alt="Facebook Profile Privacy Link" width="322" height="55" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Profile Privacy Link</p></div></li>
<li>Click the <strong>Contact Information</strong> tab.
<p><div id="attachment_162" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 241px"><img class="size-full wp-image-162" title="Facebook Contact Information Privacy Tab" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookcontactprivacy.png" alt="Facebook Contact Information Privacy Tab" width="231" height="46" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Contact Information Privacy Tab</p></div></li>
<li>For all information you want to hide from strangers, which in my opinion is everything on this page, select <strong>Customize&#8230;</strong> from the drop down menu.
<p><div id="attachment_163" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 392px"><img class="size-full wp-image-163" title="Facebook Instant Messaging Privacy" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookimprivacy.png" alt="Facebook Instant Messaging Privacy" width="382" height="102" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook Instant Messaging Privacy</p></div></li>
<li>Perform the following steps for the dialog box that appears.
<ol>
<li>Under the <strong>Friends</strong> section, select <strong>Only Friends</strong>.</li>
<li>From the <strong>Networks</strong> drop down menu, select <strong>None of My Networks</strong>.</li>
<li>Under the <strong>Except These People</strong> section, type the name of the list you created for people you don&#8217;t trust.  The name of my list was <strong>Hide Contact Info</strong>.</li>
<li>Your settings should look similar to this image.
<p><div id="attachment_164" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 388px"><img class="size-full wp-image-164" title="Facebook IM Privacy Settings" src="http://www.benjaminbloodworth.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/facebookimprivacysettings.png" alt="Facebook IM Privacy Settings" width="378" height="459" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Facebook IM Privacy Settings</p></div></li>
<li>Click the <strong>Okay</strong> button.</li>
</ol>
</li>
</ol>
<p>By doing this, you are allowing the people you trust to see your contact information, but hiding it from people you don&#8217;t trust.  You can test the settings by typing the name of a friend you don&#8217;t trust into the <strong>See how a friend sees your profile:</strong> text box.</p>
<h4>Hide Your Albums</h4>
<p>Go back to the privacy settings for your photo albums.  See the <strong>Make Photos of Your Children Private</strong> section above and follow these steps.  These steps are mostly the same as what you did for hiding your contact information.</p>
<ol>
<li>Select <strong>Customize&#8230;</strong> from the drop down menu.</li>
<li>Uncheck <strong>Everyone on Facebook</strong>.</li>
<li>Select <strong>Only Friends</strong>.</li>
<li>Select <strong>None of My Networks</strong> from the Networks drop down menu.</li>
<li>Type the name of the list you created for people you don&#8217;t trust in the <strong>Except These People</strong> text box.</li>
<li>Click the <strong>Okay</strong> button.</li>
</ol>
<h4>Add Friends to Lists During Invites</h4>
<p>Now you&#8217;ve hidden your personal information from strangers on Facebook.  You will need to remember to add people to your lists whenever you accept or send friend invitations.  Fortunately this is easy.  Choose the appropriate list from the <strong>Add to list&#8230;</strong> drop down menu.</p>
<p>By following these steps, you can protect your own identity and your children on Facebook.  An added benefit to creating lists is that you can also filter the News Feed down to just the people you are interested in by clicking the list from your Home screen.</p>
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